No Arguments, Just Secrets

They say, “I don’t like arguments.”

It sounds peaceful… until you realize, it’s not about peace—it’s about control.

Because real love isn’t afraid of a conversation. Real love doesn’t run when questioned. But when someone shuts you down every time you try to speak your heart, it’s not love they’re protecting—it’s their secrets.

They don’t want arguments because they’re hiding things.

They don’t want to be asked, because they don’t have answers.

They want you to stay calm, stay quiet, and stay giving—while they give nothing back.

No job. No contribution. No commitment.

Just your money, your roof, your time, your energy.

But if you ever dare ask, “Why?”

Suddenly, you’re the problem.

You’re the one who argues, nags, suffocates.

You’re the one who’s not giving space.

Yet they want every part of your life—without being questioned, without giving the same in return.

And even when you’re ready to grow, ready to fix the silly mistakes you might have made, they don’t want you to change—they just want to keep pointing fingers.

Because if you change, they lose the excuse.

They say you’re free, but they cage your voice.

They say no arguments, but it’s not peace—it’s power.

You are not difficult.

You are not bossy.

You are simply someone who deserves honesty, balance, and love that doesn’t silence you.

“Silence isn’t love when it’s used to hide the truth. Real peace invites truth, not just obedience.”